It's been a very long time since I've blogged here. A lot has changed in my life. A lot of good things have occurred. I'm not in remission from advanced breast cancer, but I can say that I am enjoying life and feeling pretty good. The Hubby and I have made it, so far, intact. He's had moments of returning to prior behavior that was so destructive. All in all, I'd say that 99% of the time, The Hubby is the person he committed to himself to be.
I think we all have our moments of being inconsiderate. Those lucky enough to say so find out that they are able to resolve and correct those inconsiderate moments, salve the hurt we've caused, and find ourselves in an even better place in our relationships. I think it's important to know that we are all human, after all, and we're all going to have moments where we are inconsiderate to the person/people we love. The key, as we all know, is to own up to our own BS, take steps to help undo the hurt we caused, and for crying out loud -- don't keep repeating the asinine behavior. The repeating is what destroys relationships and causes hurt that never heals. Had to get that off my chest.
I've picked up a lot more humorous Tweeters and have put myself out there a great deal on Facebook. I post, generally, anything that is going on. And, yes, especially anything that's funny. I also post about what's going on with my cancer because that's really what got me going to begin with. I wasn't sure how that was going to go, but it really was and has been the primary friend connection for me.
I've also had a serious going out with my sister. Believe it or not, she actually convinced people she had cancer and was going to die in two months. Other than trying to collect on a phone bill that is seriously overdue, I've decided not to have anymore contact with her. I do believe that some things are just not forgiveable. Her behavior definitely jumped into that category.
OK, so I said it before, "anyway," time for me to run.
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